Oops

I've been a bad friend.

I used to pride myself in being the most trustworthy friend ever, because I refused to tell secrets about anybody, and people recognized it.  I think that's how I earned all of these friends.
But lately I've been getting caught up in my frustration and I've been ranting about friends to other friends.  Not telling their secrets (oh heavens no)....
but I feel like talking about my friends negatively like that and telling other people about the troubles we're having is still mean and it's not something I should be doing.  I want to be that person people know they can just go to whenever and they don't have to worry about being talked about.

So I'm going to shape up and keep this stuff between the right people.
If you catch me slipping up, please call me out on it.